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  1. Vikram
    June 6, 2021 @ 6:29 pm

    When I look back the change from love to power struggle had happened via law of compounding effect. How the first fight/tussel started due to most trivial reason and then it went on to increase and eventually led to separation.

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  2. Sachin
    June 18, 2021 @ 3:54 pm

    Though we had a rocking love marriage dont have a real idea when she walked over in last 17 years
    Total clueless

    What an insight
    Too good
    Good work
    God bless

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  3. Irfan
    July 19, 2021 @ 1:00 am

    Sir,

    We had a great marriage..
    We were a great couple..
    Every body used to appreciate us, admired us & respected us..

    As I told U, I m a very influential person of my place..
    My wife used to feel proud for me..
    I always use to help my in-laws (without telling to anyone else), her friends & even to those whome I don’t know..
    She always used to feel proud for that..
    Fir my in-laws I m a hero..
    She again felt proud for that..

    But last 4-5 years I was hell lot busy..
    And also gone through many challenges in business & in my profession..

    I fulfilled all my wives & family needs, but was busy too much..
    Didn’t appreciated or admired, which I earlier used to do, to my wife..

    In between she developed a new friendship group..
    They became so near to her that I was convinced that if I m not there, my wife is not suffering, rather I had given all the freedom to live her life as she wants..

    But unfortunately she fall attracted to a friend of her..
    And I saw the photographs..

    It was a big shock for me..

    I never though in the remotest of my thoughts that my wife will commit such misake behind my back or will betray me..

    She was also very sorry & promised me that in life she’ll never give me second chance to be ashamed in front of me..

    I m a One woman man..

    I keep myself clean for my wife..
    For my both daughters..

    At that point of time I felt this compounding effect happens..

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    • Coach Val
      July 19, 2021 @ 2:43 pm

      Amazing insight. Just as you shared, I truly believe that we are wonderful people. It is the stress and feeling unloved brings out the worst in us.

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    • PRASANNA K
      February 10, 2022 @ 10:59 pm

      I am sticking to the process and transforming myself daily. I am still keep on trying to connect with my wife. She is still not getting connected with me. I am in mature love state and keep on trying to connect with her. But she is still in past powerstuggle stage.

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      • Coach Val
        March 21, 2022 @ 1:11 pm

        That ‘I have changed yet she hasnt’ is again a sign of the Power Struggle Stage mindset.
        The journey of transformation has just begun. Spend time in learnings. Connect with her only when it is the right time to connect. Certainly, after having learned the relationship science that teaches you the art of connecting.

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  4. Savan
    May 24, 2022 @ 12:37 am

    Since past lot of mistake of mine led my wife accumulate the things again and again and slowly made gap in between us. My wife is too good. My time gap of busy schedule is wrong. Then lot of no speaking things happen since months and now no communication

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    • Coach Val
      May 24, 2022 @ 8:06 pm

      Learning relationship science would give you the answers. All the best!

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  5. graliontorile
    May 31, 2022 @ 11:55 pm

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    • Coach Val
      June 2, 2022 @ 11:53 am

      Thanks. I’m grateful to receive your appreciation.

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