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  1. Ronald
    June 7, 2021 @ 8:27 pm

    I really want to become an awesome husband who can create lovely memories. I did all those things to bring her back and I failed miserably. But I dont want to fail completely I want to win her back

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  2. Biswajit banik
    June 27, 2021 @ 12:54 pm

    My mother tang hindi

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    • Coach Val
      June 27, 2021 @ 1:50 pm

      I am sorry. I will not able to create content in Hindi

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    • Madhu
      July 5, 2022 @ 11:26 pm

      Agreed with you coach only when she s hurt badly she speaks about the past but why does she doesn’t understand only when we sit and talk something gets solved or sorted out. From now on ll be more silent than the past coach

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      • Coach Val
        July 7, 2022 @ 10:14 am

        Being on her side would help.her come to.your side and understand. This seldom would happen with explaining it.
        Great insight. Thanks for sharing.

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  3. Irfan
    July 19, 2021 @ 1:13 am

    Great advice..
    Deep regards to U..

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  4. Kamlesh
    July 28, 2021 @ 10:58 pm

    A very important inside as I always would burst in anxiety when the past was referred. Now I understand the process of listening, accepting, softly asking her requirements and creating new love moments so that it helps to erase the old issues and most importantly not repeating any of the old mistakes

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  5. Sukendu
    September 12, 2021 @ 10:59 pm

    This blog has helped me in understanding what not to do when my wife brings up the past. I had always gone defensive and tried to prove my stand during such discussions and ended up with higher frustration and anger.
    From now on I will let her speak until she is done and will acknowledge in the most polite way.
    Love can change one’s perception towards the other and true love can help heal the past wounds faster.
    I make a promise to myself that I will lave my wife the way she wanted to be loved.

    Thank you for such wonderful insights.

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  6. Ravi S
    December 27, 2021 @ 6:10 pm

    Both of her parents are no more now.. She is keeping in mind few times, wherein I might have behaved in an autocratic manner, which I am not even able to recollect. She says, I am a narcisst who does not even aware how he behaves.. I am willing to work on restructuring myself to make her understand, I am a transformed man..

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    • Coach Val
      March 21, 2022 @ 12:55 pm

      Happy to see your willingness to learn.
      Building an awesome marriage begins with growing in our awareness.
      Keep learning!

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  7. chivi
    January 16, 2022 @ 3:10 pm

    how can i answer for cross questions during that time , should i keep quite or how to resspond?

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    • Coach Val
      April 15, 2022 @ 2:04 pm

      What she expects is not an answer to her question but for you to understand her pain and her feelings.
      All the best!

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  8. PRASANNA K
    February 11, 2022 @ 12:10 am

    Great advice. Thank you so much. Dear Val Sir yes all your points are 100% correct about past happened things and scenarios.

    I am following process. I am focusing only on becoming awesome person and restart loving my wife.

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    • Coach Val
      March 21, 2022 @ 1:16 pm

      Happy to know. I hope that helps you in your relationship.
      Thanks for sharing.

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  9. Deepak
    April 14, 2022 @ 9:55 pm

    Dear coach you are absolutely right ,but my wife always talks about bad memories and not about good memories ,but I liked your point to be not defensive towards her it only increases her anger….will try to be a good listener

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    • Coach Val
      April 15, 2022 @ 1:47 pm

      Great!
      Good luck at building back connection.

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  11. Gagan khanduja
    May 5, 2022 @ 6:02 pm

    Thanks coach for preparing me for the coming up situation.

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  12. graliontorile
    June 3, 2022 @ 4:05 pm

    Sweet blog! I found it while surfing around on Yahoo News. Do you have any suggestions on how to get listed in Yahoo News? I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there! Appreciate it

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  13. ‏bose qc 25
    July 28, 2022 @ 2:36 am

    Very informative article.Much thanks again. Much obliged.

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    • Coach Val
      July 28, 2022 @ 2:15 pm

      Thanks! I am glad you liked it.

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