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  1. Rahul
    June 21, 2021 @ 12:27 am

    The 3rd enemy seem to be strongest as it’s within… it’s inner battle she has to win…and consistency from my side, staying top my building, making her stress free, seeing from her perspective can help her win the battle.

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  2. HS
    June 21, 2021 @ 12:29 am

    Key Insight from Podcast on 3 enemies wife has to fight during seperation

    1. Time is love.
    2. 3 enemies are – doubt, society and principles. Assist her in facing these enemies through assurance, being by her side and by understanding and making her understand she is right.

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    • Coach Val
      June 21, 2021 @ 11:35 am

      Awesome HS. Keep it up.

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    • PRASANNA K
      February 10, 2022 @ 11:28 pm

      She made her decision not to come back.
      But I an still standing by her side. Maturity loving her and helping her indirectly to co quer 3 enemies Doubt, Trust,Society and Principles.9

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      • Coach Val
        March 21, 2022 @ 1:13 pm

        Happy to see your commitment at bringing back love into your relationship.
        All the very best!

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  3. Vino
    June 21, 2021 @ 8:10 am

    Yes I can understand the 3 enemies she has to conquer, doubting that I have changed , overcome our families and thirdly she has to conquer her decision of separation . This is not going to be one day task and we have to follow the process . Few action can be , to be consistent when we have changed , even if she is wrong be on her side that she is correct.

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    • Coach Val
      June 21, 2021 @ 11:38 am

      Very well said.

      The last statement, “even if she wrong..” is not true. Both of you are right and there’s no one wrong in the marriage. You will learn this when you go through conflict to connection course.

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  4. Dhiraj Kumar
    December 31, 2021 @ 3:51 pm

    “Ek baar jo maine commitment kar di uske baad to main khud bhi nahi sunti ”

    Is stopping her to connect with me.

    Let’s follow the process and be a better we so she could not stop coming back with love.

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    • Coach Val
      March 21, 2022 @ 12:58 pm

      A good step towards bringing back love.
      All the very best!

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  5. PRASANNA K
    February 10, 2022 @ 11:47 pm

    I will standby my wife’s side and help her to over come 3 enemies. Dear Val Sir. I want your active live kind help to succeed that.

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    • Coach Val
      March 21, 2022 @ 1:15 pm

      Happy to know that. You have my support and the support of our ever-growing Awesome Husbands’ Hub community.

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  6. graliontorile
    June 3, 2022 @ 11:04 am

    There are some interesting points in time on this article but I don’t know if I see all of them heart to heart. There’s some validity but I’ll take hold opinion till I look into it further. Good article , thanks and we would like extra! Added to FeedBurner as well

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